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How to Take a Couple Selfie That Doesn't Look Like a Selfie

How to Take a Couple Selfie That Doesn't Look Like a Selfie
Quick answer

Hold the phone as far away as you can and slightly above eye level, or better, prop it on something and use the rear camera with a timer. Face the light, keep the phone out of the reflection in any glasses, and don't both look at the lens — one looking at the other reads as candid.

Why selfies look like selfies

Close front camera (wide-angle distortion), low angle, the arm intruding, and the tell-tale both-staring-at-the-lens look.

Fixes without a tripod

  • Fully extend your arm, phone slightly above eye level, tilted down a little
  • Prop the phone on a ledge and use the rear camera + 10s timer — sharper and no arm
  • Use the main lens, not ultra-wide
  • One person looks at the camera, the other looks at them

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Light and background

Face a window or the sky. Keep a busy background behind you soft by stepping away from it. If either of you wears glasses, angle slightly so the phone doesn't show in the lenses.

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Front camera or rear camera for couple photos?

Rear camera, every time — it's higher resolution and less distorted. Prop the phone and use the timer so you can use it.